Honestly, months ago, I couldn't be one to tell you how to get what you want. But a couple of months after, I became much more of me than a scaredy-cat that I used to be.
You see, I believe we all have things we want, things we think we can never have unless we take one step out of our comfort zones. And to put it frankly, that's about it, that's how you should intend to do things, to take things and matters into your own hands and accord. Not everything will work out the way you planned them if nobody would execute it. And yes! the executor equals YOU.
One thing I have learnt this past few months is to learn when the risk is greater than your comfort zone. When the opportunity is healthier at hand than in bay. And, when what you bargained for is actually much greater than anything at the moment. If it's healthy, growth-stimulating and regret-free,
then it falls under 'that' fated category that is "worthy". Hesitation has always been an obstruction to the clamoring heart. And I am not one to say, trust your heart, rather, I would tell you to trust your head. Because unlike the heart that falters in a heartbeat, the brain will keep working and shall have utmost control over the sometimes hedonistic heart.
I tell you this: it is more secure to trust the mind than the heart-- because you will never have to regret a hasty decision because there will be none.
And so, when I tell you to go after what you want, I'm not telling you to be foolish and submit to the longings of the heart, else, I would be a walking contradiction. What I am telling you is this: Walk your own path, create your own fate and live your own destiny according to your liking. And what better way to do that than to take a step out of your comfort zone and trust that the world will change.
